Any woman who goes into marriage with the faulty mindset of equality with her husband is heading for some big marital crisis, if you don’t believe it you are free to try it out and experience it. *wink*
Anyway, ex-Big Brother Africa housemate Huddah Monroe shared an interesting thoughts about this issue and her position has caused some controversy with some ladies who want equality. Details…
She supported the post with the words below:
“These are my thoughts. What’s yours ? I posted this for the comments LMFAO! If you don’t want to be cheated on, buy some dildos like Waiguru and f* yourself coz the next man these days is like the first. Too many hot gals out here! And cheers to all the side chicks who ain’t getting pregnant for these men, some wives can remove your womb with their bare hands… #LetsJustBeHonest #LetsJustBeReal”Ladies, this is the truth: If you husband is a gentle man and decides to marry only you, then don’t push your luck too far by competing with him, saying ‘if my husband do this, I will do that’. Be wise!
Hmmm. I'll reserve my comments and chill to hear what the ladies think. LOL.
She is very right...a man would always be a man...but this is no excuse to cheat
ReplyDeleteI quite agree that it's not an excuse to cheat. There are loads of faithful men around though. Trust me, I know cos I'm a guy. Hehehehe
ReplyDeleteOk, I usually don't argue this topic, yeaa, I know sometimes I say men are men n they aren't made to be with one woman, but hey, its up to u WoMAN to decide what u want, to settle or not settle. I ain't no HOMOSEXUAL, n so I won't sleep with my fellow woman, n he can't force me, yea, if he has to stick his d**k in hers n come to me, then that means I am doing d woman tooo, yea, so its not my problem if he cheats, so long he continues cheating n leave me to close up, he won't force me to cheat. Spiritually speaking, he won't transfer any of her demons to me #chikena
ReplyDeleteHahaha. Uche, my ribs are hurting here. Nice solution but I doubt if it's practicable. How does the lady 'closing up' take care of her 'needs'? Besides, that's a blank cheque for the randy man to keep fooling around. Fidelity is very important especially in marriages. Let's pray to marry right. That's all.
ReplyDeleteKpuchie ya/ nyachie ya (cover it/seal it) with d blood of Jesus. Women who settle, don't start it when they marry, they see all d signs during courtship n consciously make d decision to yoke with the man, some think 'getting d man' is d ultimate goal while other buy the 'he will change idea', those waiting for saints will wait forever, as 4 me, all I will say is 'Marry a believer', someone who loves God more than he loves U n puts God before you, only then will d marital lines fall unto u in pleasant places
ReplyDeleteI quite agree especially with the last part. Let me also point out that marital infidelity isn't restricted to males. It cuts across both genders. The world has gone haywire.
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