'MY HUSBAND IS MY BOYFRIEND ON BBM, FACEBOOK AND WHATSAPP AND HE DOES NOT KNOW' HMMMM

Dear NHW,

I’m actually rolling on the floor laughing. I am having a swell time.

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and  bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p***y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’!The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think? Should I continue or should I stop?

From an Agony Mail sent to NaijaHousewife, what will you advise this woman to do?

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We've seen this is movies and read countless tales about stuff like this from both males and females. In my honest opinion, it is counterproductive. These are my reasons- First, I believe the man knows it's been his wife all along or has realised that at some point. You can't be married and have four kids together without having your antennas raised by your partner's private stats or favourite lines/phrases which must pop up at some point in the chats. 'Playing dumb' and letting the woman regale herself or be impressed by her ingenuity has worked for men since the Biblical time. LOL.

Secondly, assuming the man is in the dark, his senses have been captured by an illusion and he's falling for the adventure NOT his wife. In that case, the aim of getting more cosy with him is defeated. The woman should just open up soon because if the man finds out later, he'll feel played (she used details she knew he'll love (classified info, Lol) to trick him) and forgiveness may be impossible. Ladies, just leave investigation for the Police and FBI. Hehehehe.

Men and women, repent this 2016 and mend your ways. Guys, please tame that Lion and face your hustle and 'madam'. Ladies, stay focused to your man/career and stop lusting after excessive wealth or bragging rights among your peers. Shalom